
the internet knows me too well.
my personality type - ENFP.
"They can't bear to miss out on what is going on around them; they must experience, first hand, all the significant social events that affect our lives."
- The Portrait of the Champion Idealist (Keirsey)
"Friends are what life is about to ENFPs, moreso even than the other NFs. They hold up their end of the relationship, sometimes being victimized by less caring individuals. ENFPs are energized by being around people. Some have real difficulty being alone, especially on a regular basis."
- ENFP Profile (TypeLogic)
problems i will face. gosh this is the worst. how do they know all this stuff??
as a child:
In their quest to be liked, ENFP children are hypersensitive to the criticism of others, especially playmates. With a tendency to personalize everything, they are easily crushed by a harsh remark, so that their trademark phrase could be: "Everyone is so mean to me!"
other stuff:
Most of the weaker characteristics found in ENFPs are due to their dominant Extraverted Intuition overshadowing the personality to the extent that they don’t apply judgement to anything. Or, they may use their primary judging function (Introverted Feeling) to support the agenda of Extraverted Intuition, i.e. to rationalize and support the idea of welcoming all experiences and accepting all individuals. In such cases, an ENFP may show some or all of the following weaknesses in varying degree:
·May be what many would call a “sucker”; vulnerable to schemers and con artists.
·May get themselves into dangerous situations because they’re too eager to push the envelope of their understanding, and not willing to apply judgement to anything.
·May feel intense anger towards people who criticize them or try to control them. But will be unable to express the anger. Left unexpressed, the anger may fester and simmer and become destructive.
·May blame their problems on other people, using logic and ration to defend themselves against the world.
·May develop strong negative judgements that are difficult to unseed against people who they perceive have been oppressive to them.
·May start projects but be unable to finish them.
my weaknesses
-ENFP will typically overlook more logical solutions
-ENFP may take the situation extremely personally
-ENFP may not see the details of the situation
-ENFP may begin by talking all around the central problem
-ENFPs are likely to decide too quickly because of the pain
-ENFP will probably discount, ignore, disregard, and overlook solutions that are logic-centered
-ENFP may overstate, embellish, the degree of hurt feelings
-ENFPs may ignore the situation if it hurts too much
-ENFPs may not state their thinking directly, in details thus can be difficult to follow
man, it can be such a chore sometimes...
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